Megs Dixon Coaching

You love your husband. He's living a double life. You're exhausted. Let's fix that. 

For years, my life revolved around trying to keep everything steady. The house, the kids, his moods, his recovery. The next crisis I hoped wasn’t coming. I became the one holding everything together while quietly falling apart myself.

Now I help wives of high-functioning addicts stop treading water and start feeling steady again - emotionally, mentally, and in their marriage.

THIS IS FOR WOMEN WHO ARE DONE DISAPPEARING INSIDE THEIR HUSBANDS ADDICTION.

You know you can’t keep doing the same reactive cycle. You’ve tried being patient, being strong, being supportive….but you’re ready for something that actually works.

You want a life that includes:

• A home that feels calm, even if he’s still up & down
• The freedom to know: you can stay steady regardless of what he's doing
• Boundaried support - a way of supporting him without draining you
• A sense of peace that isn’t derailed by his sobriety, his moods, or his choices
• Conversations that actually lead to real change 

“6 months ago I felt like a shell of myself. I’m now more grounded, more present, and more clear than I’ve ever been- and my husband is finally getting support.”

- Sophie

I can help you reclaim the present, playful, vibrant woman you truly are.

Not the one analysing his every move. The one who leads - with real presence and emotional clarity. The one whose life no longer rises and falls with her husband’s sobriety.

I used to think over functioning and detaching were my only options. Now I know better. I believe in emotionally led, evidence-based simplicity:

🧭 Responses that don’t escalate the chaos
🌱 Boundaries that protect your peace and your connection
🏡 Families that get to feel safe - even if he’s still figuring it out
🧠 Strategies that don’t rely on him being “ready”

You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
You don’t have to keep guessing.
You don’t have to choose between yourself and your marriage anymore.

Let’s build your Version 2.0 - together.

You're Ready for This If:

You're already holding it all together.
This isn’t about surviving, you’ve done that. It’s about finally feeling steady while doing it.

You’re done waiting for him to change first.
You’ve realised that your peace can’t be dependent on his progress anymore.

You’re not afraid to invest in clarity.
You’ve poured time, energy, and emotion into this relationship - now you're ready to invest in you.

You want emotional freedom, not just coping skills.
You're done white knuckling it. You want real tools that actually shift the dynamic and protect your peace.

You’re craving a path forward that honours your love and your limits.
You don’t want to leave - but you also don’t want to live like this. You’re ready for both-and solutions.

You’re coachable and committed.
You're not here to vent, you're here to shift. You listen, you apply, and you reflect honestly.

You take ownership of your side of the street.
You’re not trying to control him - you’re here to lead yourself and your family forward, with or without his participation.

You’re ready to stop outsourcing your sanity.
You’ve tried detachment. You’ve tried doing it all. Now you’re ready for something better. Anchored. Aligned. Actually sustainable.

We're Not a Fit If:

You're hoping for a magic fix.
If you're looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do to make him change, this isn’t it.

You're not willing to look at your side of the dynamic.
If your focus is 100% on his behavior - and you’re not open to shifting your own patterns - this work won’t land.

You want someone to carry you.
I’ll walk with you every step. But I can’t want this more than you do.

You expect me to give you black & white answers.
This work is nuanced. It honours your values, your pace, your unique family. If you're looking for one size fits all advice, I’m not your coach.

You’re only here to vent.
This isn’t a support group. It’s for women ready to create real change - with practical tools and emotional leadership.

You want control, not clarity.
If you're trying to find the right formula to make him get sober now, without doing your own work, you’ll miss the whole point.

How This Works

This isn’t a one size fits all program.

Everything we do together is tailored to your marriage, your values, and the kind of life you actually want to live - whether he’s in recovery yet or not.

You bring your situation. I bring the tools, frameworks, and lived experience. We sit down (virtually), coffee in hand, and get to work on what matters most- your peace, your power, your next steps.

No more Zoom fatigue. Just strategic support when you actually need it.

This is completely custom to where you are and where you want to go. We're installing the missing pieces that make this hard season feel lighter and more sustainable on you & your nervous system.

I've helped dozens of moms reclaim themselves & their stability in the thick of their husbands cycles -

You know what I've learned? The best coaching doesn't happen on scheduled calls.

It happens in the moments you're actually IN your life. That's why I've eliminated weekly calls from my coaching packages.

Instead, you get:

- Support when you need it (not when it's "scheduled")

- No more waiting until Thursday's call to get unstuck on Monday's problem

- Expert feedback on your actual conversations (not just talking about it)

This is for women who want high-level guidance without living on Zoom.

Here's How It Works:

1. You Get a 60-minute call toidentify exactly what you need help with & then map your '30 day decision' plan (we focus on 30 days at a time because addiction is unpredictable). Book it when you're ready within your package timeframe. This isn't fluff- it's the strategic roadmap that guides everything else.

2. You Get Daily Access to Me Messaging support Monday-Friday during business hours. Voice/Text message me your questions. Get unstuck in real-time. No waiting for our "next session." No scheduling calls. Just direct access when you need it.

3. Get Support With Hard Conversations Want to share how you feel about something in particular, make a request or communicate a boundary? Get word for word guidance & feedback within 24-48 hours. You get expert eyes on your ACTUAL conversations - not theoretical advice, real feedback on real life moments.

4. You Implement With Confidence Because you're not guessing. You're not wondering if you're doing it right. You have a marriage coach in your pocket who can give you specific guidance and holds you gently accountable for any focus areas you want to work on in yourself.

Message-Coaching Frequently Asked Questions

"What if I prefer regular coaching calls?" I totally get it - calls work great for some people. But I've found that the best breakthroughs happen when you're in the middle of real life, not talking about it from a distance. If you need calls to process and strategise, this might not be the right fit.

"How quickly do you respond?" During business hours (Monday-Friday), I'm usually pretty responsive - often within a few hours. For conversation prep and wording support, you'll get feedback within 24-48 hours.

"What if I send you something and don't hear back?" Won't happen. I'm committed to 24-48 hour turnaround on everything. If you haven't heard from me, send a follow-up. I'm human and sometimes things slip through.

"What happens when my container ends?" You can renew for another 6 months, or we part ways as friends. No pressure, no hard sell. If you got what you needed, great. If you want to continue, even better.

"Is this really unlimited conversation prep support?" Yes, with reasonable limits outlined in your client agreement. Send me what you're working on - what you want to say, how you want to word it, what's coming up. What I'm not able to do is work through stacks of screenshots of back & forth text messages. The support is forward- facing: we focus on what you're going to say, not a play by play of what already happened.

"What if we're not a good fit?" That's what the application is for. I'll review it within 24 hrs and let you know honestly if I think we'd work well together. I'd rather tell you upfront than take your money and deliver a mediocre experience.

"Why are the monthly payments lower for longer packages?"
Because longer commitment = better results. When you commit to 6 months, you're all-in. That deserves a better rate. Plus, I know you'll be working with me long enough to actually implement what we strategise.

"Can I pay in full instead of monthly?" Yes. If you want to pay the full amount upfront, that's fine. Just let me know on your application.

"What if I need an extra call?" Your package includes one coaching call. If something comes up that genuinely can't be worked through in voice messages or writing, I'll review it on a case-by-case basis at my discretion.

Ready for Stability Now?

You could keep figuring this out piece by piece on your own. But you're here because you know that the right guidance accelerates everything.

You've proven you can survive this. Now it's time to become grounded & stable - no matter his sobriety status. You don’t have to leave to get your brain back. You just need a plan that's built for your family, your nervous system, your real life.

This is your moment to reclaim yourself.

Ready to apply? Let's see if we're a perfect fit to take your coaching business to the next level.