You love your husband. He's living a double life. You're exhausted. Let's fix that. 

But here’s what makes my story different: I rebuilt my entire life -  my marriage, my stability, my identity - while raising a blended family of four kids and living inside the reality of his addiction.

My “old days” - Managing the house, the kids, the chaos… Trying to predict his moods, pre-empt the spirals, hold everything together… All while quietly carrying the weight of being the steady one, the safe one, the one who couldn’t afford to fall apart. And every time I tried to “fix” things, I burned out a little more.

I wanted my family to stay together. I wanted my marriage to work. But not at the expense of my sanity, my health, or my whole identity.

So I changed the only thing I could: my side of the dynamic. I stopped trying to manage his recovery. I stopped living in detective mode. I stopped abandoning myself to keep the peace. I learned how to communicate in a way that actually reached him - even when he was still using. And everything shifted.

Today? I run a thriving coaching business, raise my kids, and live in a marriage that feels like version 2.0 - not because he suddenly changed, but because I did. You don’t have to burn yourself to the ground to hold your family together. You don’t have to choose between your wellbeing and your marriage. You don’t have to wait for him to get sober to create stability now. You get to have a life that works.
A home that feels steady. A relationship that has a real chance. And you get to keep yourself in the process.

Now I help wives of high-functioning addicts stop white-knuckling their lives and start feeling steady again - emotionally, mentally, and in their marriage.

You don’t have to keep bracing to be let down or micromanaging his recovery. There’s a better way to live… and I’m living proof that it works.

THIS IS FOR WOMEN WHO ARE DONE SHRINKING THEMSELVES TO SURVIVE.
You know you can’t keep doing the same reactive cycle. You know emotional safety isn’t optional - it’s the backbone of your home, your motherhood, your marriage. You’ve tried being patient, being strong, being supportive… but you’re ready for something that actually works.

You want a life that includes:

• A home that feels calm, even if he’s still in his cycles
• Conversations where you feel heard instead of dismissed
• Boundaried support that reaches him without draining you
• A marriage that gets healthier because you are healthier
• A sense of peace that isn’t dependent on his sobriety, his moods, or his choices
• The freedom to wake up and not immediately wonder which version of him you’re getting today.
• The freedom to stop reacting from fear and start responding from strength.
• The freedom to know: your stability is yours, not borrowed from his behaviour.

And a relationship that grows because you’re leading from a place of emotional authority - not survival mode.

“6 months ago I felt like a shell of myself. I’m now more grounded, more present, and more clear than I’ve ever been- and my husband is finally open to help.”

- Sophie

I can help you become the woman you're evolving into.

Not the one who stays stuck analyzing his every move. The one who leads - with anchored strength and emotional clarity.
The one who stops spiraling and starts showing up like the woman she was always meant to be. The one whose life no longer rises and falls with her husband’s sobriety.

I used to think over-functioning and detaching were my only options. Now I know better.

I believe in emotionally-led, evidence-based simplicity:

🧭 Responses that don’t escalate the chaos
🌱 Boundaries that protect your peace and your connection
🏡 Families that get to feel safe - even if he’s still figuring it out
🧠 Strategies that don’t rely on him being “ready”

You don’t have to keep doing this alone.
You don’t have to keep guessing.
You don’t have to choose between yourself and your marriage anymore.

Let’s build your Version 2.0 - together.

You're Ready for This If:

You're already holding it all together.
This isn’t about surviving. You’ve done that. It’s about finally feeling steady while doing it.

You’re done waiting for him to change first.
You’ve realized that your peace can’t be dependent on his progress anymore.

You’re not afraid to invest in clarity.
You’ve poured time, energy, and emotion into this relationship - now you're ready to invest in you.

You want emotional freedom, not just coping skills.
You're done white-knuckling it. You want real tools that actually shift the dynamic and protect your peace.

You’re craving a path forward that honors your love and your limits.
You don’t want to leave - but you also don’t want to live like this. You’re ready for both-and solutions.

You’re coachable and committed.
You're not here to vent. You're here to shift. You listen, you apply, and you reflect honestly.

You take ownership of your side of the street.
You’re not trying to control him - you’re here to lead yourself and your family forward, with or without his participation.

You’re ready to stop outsourcing your sanity.
You’ve tried detachment. You’ve tried doing it all. Now you’re ready for something better. Anchored. Aligned. Actually sustainable.

We're Not a Fit If:

You're hoping for a magic fix.
If you're looking for someone to tell you exactly what to do to make him change, this isn’t it.

You're not willing to look at your side of the dynamic.
If your focus is 100% on his behavior - and you’re not open to shifting your own patterns - this work won’t land.

You want someone to carry you.
I’ll walk with you every step. But I can’t want this more than you do.

You expect me to give you black-and-white answers.
This work is nuanced. It honors your values, your pace, your unique family. If you're looking for one size fits all advice, I’m not your coach.

You’re only here to vent.
This isn’t a support group. It’s for women ready to create real change - with practical tools and emotional leadership.

You want control, not clarity.
If you're trying to find the right formula to make him get sober now, without doing your own work, you’ll miss the whole point.

How This Works

This isn’t a one size fits all program.

Everything we do together is tailored to your marriage, your values, and the kind of life you actually want to live - whether he’s in recovery yet or not.

No scripts or cookie cutter rules here. We co-create a plan that helps you feel steady, clear, and in control of your side of the dynamic.

You bring your situation. I bring the tools, frameworks, and lived experience. We sit down (virtually), coffee in hand, and get to work on what matters most: your peace, your power, your next steps.

Once you submit your application, I’ll personally review it within 24 hours and let you know if we’re a strong fit to work together.

This isn’t therapy.
This isn’t a support group.
This is transformation - tailored to real life, and ready when you are.

🪴 Week to Week Package

$247/week -  no lock in contract
Perfect if you want immediate support and flexibility as you move through big decisions, triggers, or transitions.

Includes:
✔️ Weekly 75 minute 1:1 coaching sessions
✔️ Full access to the Anchored365 program
✔️ Ongoing email support between sessions
✔️ No lock in contracts

🌿 8 Week Deep Dive

$1400 total (save $576)
Best for women ready to create massive traction in just 2 months - with consistent support and a clear plan.

Includes:
✔️ Eight 75 minute 1:1 coaching sessions
✔️ Full access to the Anchored365 program
✔️ Ongoing email support between sessions
✔️ Weekly time slot and 8 week commitment for momentum and accountability